Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?

So the other day I was thinking about possibly talking to one of my ex`s through IM. (I know..I still have it..*lame*)
Anyways; I just wanted to see how he was, what was new with him & whatnot.
I was still hesistant, though, because he lives a couple streets from me & I`m sure he would be like "oh hey let`s hang out" aaaaand I dunno if I would actually want to hang out..I`m not all for the whole "ex`s hanging out" thing. Plus I don`t want him to regain any feelings for me, because he still liked me after the split. (which, by the way, was several years ago).

Basically, my question is this: Can you still be friends with your ex?
Correction: Can you still be on polite & friendly terms with him (or her)?
I`m not saying that I WANT or HAVE to be friends with him, but is it possible for me to be at least a friendly acquaintance to him?
I`d like to say yes, but we`ll have to see.

Sidenote: I do not have feelings for him.

Trial & Error?
Sure.Why not..

:)

1 comment:

Jet-Setting Divas said...

NO! I've tried it with the first ex--and He thought we were going to get back together. Tried it with the second ex..and he is thinking the same thing! Lol..